Tuesday, August 26, 2008

What a ride

So it's that time again, time for me to come up with something provocative to say, something full of meaning and significance, a profound announcement, but alas that is not the case. The most recent news was from the Committee of Child Rights Protection stating that dossiers that specified a gender would be returned.  I felt sick for all the families that have come so far in the process only to have to start the wait over again if they chose to continue in their decision to adopt from Kaz.  Not to say that a childisn't worth the wait, because he or she is, but the wait is the hardest part...Well, needless to say Jeff and I are not among these PAPs and do not have to make the difficult decisions they are.  We determined early on that we didn't care if we were gifted with a boy our girl, we just wanted a child to share our home, hearts and lives with.  So where does that put us, the same place we have been for the last four months, the MFA.  Yep we haven't moved.  We are gearing up for the fall and as we do we find ourselves thinking, "Last year we thought we would have our baby here to share this with."  I love Halloween, it rates just above Christmas as far as I am concerned and last year aswe searched and found a local pumpkin patch we became excited about the prospect of sharing the experience with our child this year, not to be.  Well the point of this entry wasn't to be sad.  On a happier note, we have added a new furry family member.  His name is Mooshoo and as soon as I get a pick I will add it to the blog.  This was an unplanned adoption, someone dumped him by our house and he found his way into our yard.  He is a little yellow tabby, though when he arrived he was a little worse for the wear.  He had a ouchie on his nose (usually caused when they throw them from the vehicle in a hurry) and his front canine is missing (I don't know if it will come back or not)  He has adjusted quite well with the rest of our motley crew and even our older cat, Chopstix, plays with him and doesn't his at him anymore.  If this adoption doesn't go through soon we may have to open a zoo at this rate!  Actually, no more pets we are at maximum capacity.

The other exciting thing is our chili cook-off.  We have in in October of every year, actually this is just the third year for the cook-off, but for two
years prior we had a halloween party. Anyway, I have been working on a theme and decorating ideas for the house and of course what I will wear for a costume.  It is always great fun and good food!  This year I am going with a mad scientist lad and running the invitations like a want ad and old newspaper clippings, but the best part of all is the picture I photoshopped of Jeff...

Yes, I set his eyebrows on fire, no it is not supposed to look totally real, think more tabloid sensationalism!  I laughed the whole time I did it.  At any rate it will be fun.  

With all the uncertainty in the IA world especially as we are experiencing it, I have had a lot of encouragement from some unlooked for sources, but I will just end with we started this race and we intend of finishing strong 

Therefore, since through God's mercy we have this ministry we do not lose heart...We are hard pressed on every side, but not crushed; perplexed, but not in despair; persecuted, but not abandoned; struck down, but not destroyed.  II Corinthians 4:1, 8-9 

7 comments:

Joby and Marla said...

I have been at the MFA for 10 weeks & I am going crazy.
You have such a great attitude!!!

Here's to hoping to hear something soon.... Good News that is!!!!

Tim and Judy Herrera said...

Jeff and Michelle,

Glad to hear that your doss was not sent back. Whoever he or she is will be completely right for your family! Then you will be thankful for these long delays. I am sorry to say, that it hard to know this completely until you get there - but I hope this is an encouragement to you from someone who waited once and found this to be true.

Much love,
Judy

Tim and Judy Herrera said...

Jeff and Michelle,

Glad to hear that your doss was not sent back. Whoever he or she is will be completely right for your family! Then you will be thankful for these long delays. I am sorry to say, that it hard to know this completely until you get there - but I hope this is an encouragement to you from someone who waited once and found this to be true.

Much love,
Judy

Sheryl said...

You are keeping a great attitude (I know it's hard)! I'm praying that something will move soon. Hugs, Sheryl :)

KazAdventurers said...

I love those verses. Thanks for sharing! I hope you hear some news soon about movement with your dossier. I know just how hard it is to wait. We've known our region for almost 3 months now. Hopefully we'll all hear something soon.

Best wishes!
Lisa of kazadventure.wordpress

McMary said...

Hi Jeff and Michell,
Thanks for the great words of concern. I am very glad that your dossier was not affected and I hope that things move soon for you.

tiglilygirl said...

Hang in there! I completely understand how you feel I have been in the MFA for awhile too- hang in there- you will be holding your baby soon, everything will work out!! Katie
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